Let’s say you suspect, or happen to find out that your man/husband is cheating or having an affair. You’re really shocked, very angry and sad that he betrayed you. You don’t want to leave him but you can’t tolerate sharing him with someone else. How do you go about this?
Men cheat because of an internal conflict. They hardly ever have an affair because they want to end the marriage. When you find out about the affair, he may rationalize his infidelity by saying that he couldn’t deal with you or the marriage any longer. It’s too devastating to admit that he decided to have a relationship with someone else for any other reason than that. Thus, he must make up an excuse that places blame on someone or something else other than himself.
Some women will cling to the rationalization that the problems in the relationship caused their husband to cheat. They will convince themselves that if they change, make their husband happier, he will stop the affair. Below are eight (8) important steps you need to take to completely end your husband’s infidelity.
Step 1) Find out the TRUTH!
It is very typical for the disloyal husband to deny he’s having an affair. Even if you walk in and catch him “in the act.” he might say “It’s not what it looks like!” So this step is not intended to make him confess. This step is to ascertain if something REALLY IS going on.
One word of caution: accusing someone is serious business, so be sure to keep an open mind. Be sure that you pursue discovering THE TRUTH and not some pre-decided agenda. Make sure you gather proof–evidence–to either prove or disprove that he is cheating.